The Cow Play

This is one of the plays I devised for my sub. I even wrote it into a story on Literotica called Milking the Cow.

So instructions.

1. Collar the sub. (s)he should be standing on all fours on the ground, naked with chain attached to the collar and handle hanging from a nail or hook on the wall.
*Optional, buy a tail, add an anal plug to it and insert into the anus.

2. Paint black dots on her/him. Large blots would be fine. The more uneven, the better.

3. Remember cows only moo. So that is what he/she is allowed to say during the play.

4. Milk the cow.
- For male sub, massage the prostate to induce milk. Get a wooden bucket/bowl for collection.
- For female sub, massage the breasts like udders, squeeze in alternative strokes. If you never milked a cow before, watch a youtube video. The more realistic, the better this play.

4. Clipping
- Clip both nipples for male subs and massage penis like an udder.
- Clip one for female sub while massaging the other breast.

5. Bring out some fresh greens (arugula, spinach, etc) and remember cows have no eating manners. So he/she should chew with his/her mouth open.

6. Verbal humiliation (optional).
- To male sub, talk about what an unproductive cow he makes, especially if you bring out a wooden bucket. Wink.
- To female sub, talk about how useless she is for producing little/no milk at all. (unless of course she is lactating, then you can talk about what a good cow she makes.)

Heavy after-care required.

The 2-sub Spanks Counting Play

Thanks to LeftOfCenter202, whose idea in 101 Ways to Drive a sub Crazy Group inspired mine. You can find his method in the Group or on his post BDSM Christmas.

You can spank two submissives at the same time and make them count how many spanks (s)he received (positive number) and how many spanks the other sub received (negative number).

For example, sub A got spanked 36 times, sub B got spanked 32 times.
A should count +36 and -32.
B should count +32 and -36.

This will be mentally challenging to keep separate if numbers of spanks are close for the subs, i.e, 36 and 32.

It is a different kind of difficult if the numbers differ widely, i.e., 32 and 14.

sub A will wonder why (s)he is getting less and what sub B has done to deserve double the punishment while sub B wonder why (s)he is getting more, and if sub A is a better sub than (s)he is for getting less. In short, it becomes a mental play for the two.

With this double counting system, it is irrelevant if the Dom keeps count. The subs should write down both + and - numbers they counted after the session. If they do not match, then both earned themselves some more punishment. If they do match, the subs might feel good about each other and more willing to play together again under the same Dom. Win/Win.

After-care required for both submissives.

Appreciating the Beauty of A Man (Not Just the Physical Bit)

Partially in response to K&P post Why Is It So Hard for Men to Be Beautiful?

When I first told my submissive that he is beautiful, he said the exact same thing. He has never been called beautiful before. He knows he is handsome, hot and sexy, plenty of women told him that, but beautiful? The way he said it made me want to smack someone, preferably all the people in his almost thirty years of life who have never told him how beautiful he was.

Or perhaps I should thank all the people in his life who never told him he was beautiful, because he is to me and now he is my beautiful submissive/boyfriend.

Mine. To compliment, to protect and to play with.

And he IS beautiful. Magnificently so.

Sure, he is handsome. He is not boring to look at for a glance or a few hours. Sure, he is hot. God knows my hands cant stop touching every inch of him.
And sure, he is sexy. He loves to run and has a few marathons and half-marathons beneath his feet. The sight of him shirtless can make me feel dizzy.

But he is also beautiful. He is strong-willed and stubborn as hell. He is caring and warm. He is bossy, at work and a little out of work too, but I accept that when D/s is not in play. He is considerate and a bit of a romantic at heart. He has a slight hero complex, which I say thanks to his good upbringing, but I selfishly wish he can be less of a hero. And of course, he is submissive among so many other facets of him that I am discovering everyday.

How can a person with as many facets as a diamond, not be beautiful?

And my point is this. Beauty does not just apply to my sub. He is beautiful to me because I took the time to study him, to know him, to learn every facet of him. Okay. I had to tease/trick/use force occasionally to bring out some sides of him, but mostly, I listened and just talked to him. And the more I learned, the more I am intrigued and fascinated. I guess this is love.

Beauty lies in the eyes of the beholder.

Every single one of us with our faults, imperfections, quirks, unique personality, kinks, fetishes, hobbies and interests is beautiful. Like a diamond in the rough.

Perhaps the only question then is when someone will tell you you are beautiful. It is easy. When you give someone the chance to see you and someone takes that chance to learn the real you, to see you for who you are with all your beautiful imperfections, it is a no-brainer that they will say this.

You are beautiful.